Hi, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss, I hope that the pain will ease for your family over time. Its tragedies like that that really help put things into perspective! I’ve still had zero contact with the sister, and neither has my boyfriend. I suppose the only issue now is that there is a family wedding in August where obviously she will be there. Its strange because i always presumed I would never let anyone make me feel like this, I’m very straight up when ever i have an issue with someone. (I dont really take offence easily so this would be rare anyway.) I’m trying not to worry about the situation too much and just deal with things as they come. It can be difficult though. Its all about practising self belief and trying to ease your worrying I guess.

The name is pronounced “Seer-sha” its Gaelic for peace. 🙂 xx