Dear bluecharles:
You watch/ed the Golden Girls- I didn’t imagine a twenty year old would watch a show about older women- and it is an old show. Liked it too. Yes, I too was a very, very lonely 20 something year old. Oh, so lonely. I too wanted a love story with a guy at that age (and before and later). If you got one friend, you can get more, one more (one at a time until you have 3 friends like in the Golden Girls!) I don’t know much about you. There are ways to meet guys but I will say take SMALL steps, one at a time- one little step toward meeting someone and proceed cautiously, slowly. That is my gut feeling. I hope your perfectionism relaxes – especially in the context of that future relationship you are hoping for…
anita