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Hi Anita, thanks for your answer!
I don’t think I’ll be the problem in this situation. I’m not the one who’s pushing the relationship towards romance or intimacy at all.
He definitely is interested in me and I don’t know if I want to be with him too. I mean, I’m not pushing it towards romance, but I’m not doing anything against it either. Maybe I want it unconsciously. It’s 50/50 and I don’t know how to make a decision.
I’m supposed to see him next week and I think it might help me. But I’m scared that I might be sending wrong signs. I made it clear to him that I was planning to move abroad, he didn’t really like the idea and he says he can make me change my mind, but I don’t know if I should let him try or not. I don’t want to regret not leaving, but I don’t want to regret not trying with him either because who knows? Maybe he can change my life for the better and bring me a brand new perspective on my life and what I should do.
Well, when I meet a guy in general, I’m always meeting as a friend. Just like I would meet a girl who’ll maybe become a friend. As I said, if the relationship changes, it won’t be because of me.