Dear Jason:
I wouldn’t take the blame for her flirting with another man. Just as you are fully responsible for flirting with other women, when you do, so is she responsible for flirting with another man and for hurting you by doing so. I understand that she doesn’t acknowledge her responsibility in doing so- is that the case? Is there a pattern in the relationship where she blames you and you have to fix it in other areas? I may be off here, so I would need your input here so to go forward with my response…
anita