Reg Stepnanitely’s comment above: I vote for accepting our reality. What is the alternative? Misery. Resisting our reality brings misery. Even when it is a wonderful idea to change it, you have to be at your best state of mind to create that wonderful change, and to be in that state you need to be calm, that is accepting of the way things are.

Then examine what it is you want to do, how much of it is social and marketing conditioning: making more money, buying more things, getting a social status via a prestigious degree/ job/ career.

How many people who have lots of money, many things and social status are depressed???

So what is it that you need? Maybe to just BE, to be left alone to rest and be by yourself, just to be.

Who is taking notes about how you are doing in the World, how you fare, the marketing spies, the president, the neighbors, parents? Whose expectations are you trying to satisfy and why?

anita