I agree with Anita. Being with someone is great, but what’s more important is finding peace and happiness within yourself instead of looking for it in someone else. I can tell you right now that while it will bring your sex life back, it won’t bring happiness in the long-term. Forcing yourself to date is just a bad idea and almost never works. Focus on other aspects of life that need attention.

I’ve been in a similar situation. Start by improving your surroundings. It doesn’t sound like you’re happy with your job or coworkers. Start here and make a change. Once you get security in your career, then move out of your parents’ nest and live an independent life. Making small life changes like this can really get you hooked. You’ll feel so good about yourself that you’re going to want to keep going. Your mind will be focused on the present needs and somewhere in all of this crazy new mess you might even bump into a great guy without ever expecting it!