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July 14, 2015 at 4:56 am #79834
Inky
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Hi gypsystar7,

Do everything Moongal says.

With us chicks, Talking About It/Dumping Her Directly can actually destroy the friendship if not leave carnage and the cost of war everywhere LOL.

The most important thing to do is to Change the Script (you being vague, giving her NO ammunition). Also, can you go on a trip? Fill up your time more? Change your schedule? Hang out with other friends? Say, “I’m not good company right now”? Get a “clogged ear from swimming” = “Whut? I can’t hear you!” Say, “I’m doing a practice of Talking Less and Listening More” (hint, hint, friend)?

Oh, I could go on and on! LOL! I have shed a friend or two in my lifetime, and no matter what, it WILL be awkward. But hopefully your friend will get a clue on her own!

Good Luck,

Inky

  • This reply was modified 9 years, 5 months ago by Inky.