Sup Sann,

Don’t stress yourself too much. Everyone has a unique sense of humor, whether it be dry, sarcastic, unintentional, or funny facial expressions (sorry I don’t know the names of all those types of humor). Just like anita said, you just have to relax into yourself and be you.

You cannot fake it and force humor because then that would be a called a “force of humor”, no pun intended.

I’m not even sure if I used that correctly, but anyway, what might help is to hang around with funny people or those who are always laughing/saying something stupid. The moment you start to laugh, your thinking stops and any tension disappears. Think about it, no one stresses about any thoughts during times of laughter. Laughter is contagious so you will probably contribute to the laughter naturally without thinking about it.

Just remember this…Buddha had a belly,
-James