Dear carole:

Better withdraw from your sister so to release yourself from that rigid role where you are somehow the unloving, abusive “parent” to your unloved, abused younger sister. What an… unappetizing role you have, to repeatedly be accused of… it is insane. Remove yourself from this insanity- that is what it is, insanity. This role where she projects into you her parent/s, seeing herself in relation to you as the child and seeing you as her parent… this role is helping to keep her where she is, repeatedly replaying her childhood conflict. Better for her, and most important, better for you. I have to get off the computer very soon, power outage. Generator powered at the moment. If you write me your email address I will email you hopefully tomorrow, if and when the power or generator is on. WIll be glad to. \

anita