All I am saying is IF you believe in god and IF you believe that the bible was all inspired by that god then god hates homosexuals. It says so. I am talking about integrity of thinking. Picking and choosing what to believe in and how to (mis) interpret the bible is not congruent with honest, accurate thinking if you believe it was all inspired by god. If you believe god loves homosexuals then it cannot be the same god that inspired the part of the bible that says what it says.

Looking forward to your post after you talk to your grandmother… it is probably not a good idea to talk to her on the phone today. I would write her a letter instead and make a copy for yourself. In the letter you can invite her to write to you back or call you. I think calling her is not a good idea. If you choose the letter option you can put all of you in it, it will be more honest and complete on your part-

anita