Dear jubeesoup

I totally understand what you’re going through. I’m a very emotional person and I can get attachted to messages, and contact in general before even meeting someone. And if the times you’ve met have been so great, it’s hard to understand why the other person would distance themselves. But just understand, that even if he didn’t have bad intentions, it might not have been so serious for him as it is for you. Because some people can get easily attachated and detachted. So beware of that. Protect yourself, even if it goes against your emotions at the time. Make sure you know what you want out of a relationship and what the other person wants.

Give him some space, maybe a week or so. Don’t text or call. And then ask for a meet up in person. Tell him you feel confused and a little hurt that he grew very distant very quickly.

Hope I could help you a little bit. All the best lovely!

xx
Namaste
Helen