Dear marvelgirl:

I didn’t understand what you wrote here: “He said ages ago he wanted to find somebody to settle down with, and I know he’s only sleeping with me. He asked me, I said yes only with him. To which he replied that’s good because I’m not sure where this would go otherwise”

Can you re-write this? He said ages ago- when? Did he say that he used to want to settle down long ago but no longer does? When you wrote “He asked me” – what did he ask? And when you said “yes only with him”- meaning he asked you if you are only sleeping with him? Can you write more about that conversation you had with him?

anita