Dear Rookie:

I hope the last question “What do you think?” is for me as well (heading on top includes me). I think patience AND being open to meet people, definitely. When I wrote PATIENCE before I did not mean passive waiting kind of patience, but patience with THIS process with this guy while you are engaged in life otherwise. There is no dating-ethical rule (online or in person) to be monogamous BEFORE both parties declare their monogamy, and both parties includes him.

anita