Dear Anita,

Yes of course the question is for you too 🙂 (I should have wrote that better) Ok I think I start to grasp what you mean with patience. If it would have been before I would probably “wait” for his decision and not be open to meet other people. I’m usually a really closed person in the sense of not telling anyone personal things even to friends (i’m starting to change that now, one of my good friends even pointed it out, still a long way to go) and then sometimes I open up to someone in a relationship and they don’t care/ go away (I’m not saying i’m perfect or that its their fault, I guess we just don’t want the same things). So I think that right now I need to figure out better what I want, and how to respect myself a little bit more by taking more time to get to know people and to actually see them and not what I want them to be (seems easier on paper than done haha, but I’m going to give my best). Can you tell me what do you think about this and give me some advice if you have any?

thank you so much you have been a huge help 🙂

rookie