Dear Melissa:

I suppose he did cheat on you that very Firday night and for as long as he was in contact with you, encouraging (or not discouraging) the relationship with you while at the same time being in bed with another woman. I was wrong then and am correcting: he cheated.

Why did he? Why did he not communicate trouble before- if there was trouble in relations with you- and just.. what happened- I hope you do find out once you are calm and curious and I do hope he will then communicate honestly with you. You are likely to learn important things from such potential exhange/s.

anita