* Dear Sann:

There are many reasons to liking or disliking anyone. When someone pays attention to me positively, asks me questions and listens to answers, really listens and seems interested in my welfare- that is rare and I will like any such person. It would be comfortable to be around such. I dislike people who talk to me and act with me as if I am not there, talk about their stuff just so to “vomit” their distress, using me as … a sink for their vomit.
anita