Dear Ella,

Thank you so much for your reply!
And sorry that i didn’t reply for so long..
When i wrote this post, i just bought the new pendulum.
But i was just in the time of having to find an other house, and having to pack up all my stuff, and being there was very stressful, due to the situation with the housemates. So i didn’t feel relaxed at all in that house, so i thought that it wouldn’t be good to start dowsing there. Because i assume it’s better to be relaxed and at peace when you do it, and i couldn’t relax in there. Now in the new house, i also still don’t really manage to relax, and am constantly superstressed because of problems at work. So i don’t know if this is the good time to start with it.
Because of all the stress, i just forgot that i did this post here, and i didn’t see you post for a long time..

In case you read this and if you still feel like answering, i’m wondering about one thing you wrote. The way that you wrote, gives me the impression that you tell the pendulum what to do: which way to move for which answer.. Is that right?
I’m a bit surprised because i always thought that the pendulum decides this. The way i was shown it by a few people is they hold it still and say ‘give me yes’ ‘give me no’ and then see hoe the pendulum moves.