Dear Chris:

You express yourself very clearly. This is a good thing. Are you saying that Plan B (or C or D) cannot include you living with her in her country or in a country other than hers or the U.S?

Plan B includes not only arranging for the two of you to live together but must include how to deal with this new phenomenon in your life, this massive void as you expressed it here. How to manage this devastating experience until the two of you live together.

I will be waiting for your answer of my question.
anita