Thank you both for replying. 🙂

I did read both your posts (twice) but I will not answer the directly as I agree with both of you. I just wanted to put this fact out there because I want to let you know your answers are appreciated.

These two weeks were very stressful because I engage in a million activities and I barely have time to breath. Do not worry. I love this. I otherwise get bored fairly quickly. Today I finally got some down time and I thought a lot about my situation and I came to the following conclusion… I think I am overdoing it. Let me elaborate!

I dont think I should be trying to consider all the facts and to try to forsee all the future possibilities or outcomes. This girl makes me feel very good about myself and obviously she feels good around me also. So why not just continue doing what we are doing and we will see how things progress… naturally. I came here looking for an answer to what I should do to get this girl but the answer was staring me in the face. There is no strategy. For anything of worth to come out of this experience I must be true to myself. I must be me. If I do this I know I will come out on top. If she “chooses” me then great, if not then hey, I guess she was not meant for me after all and someone better will come along. If I try any strategies then all I am setting myself up for is failure because even if do get the girl how can I keep up with the sherades forever (I hope I spelled it correctly!). And if I should fail I would probably feel bad about myself which is absurd as I was not even being myself.

To adress anita: I do not intend to have casual sex with her. I think it is a very bad idea. A really baaad idea! 🙂 I think I should refrain from doing anything physical with here unless she dumps the guy.
About the telling her part. I understand what you are trying to say and I do agree with you but I do not think it is the right time for this. I think I should get to know her better. When I know her better I think I will be able to read her signs better and then I will get a better picture of how she feels about me. Even though I said I should not think so much in the previous paragraph I also think this does not apply here. I do not want to put myself and her in a really sticky situation just because I was seeing things. This would really screw up everything. I do understand how I should go about it. Something in the lines of I really like you. I think you are this and that but I do understand you have a boyfriend and I am only sharing this with you because I want you to know how amazing I think you are. This is only from the top of my head so dont take it literally.

I hope I made sense. 🙂

Have a good one. 😉
Matic