Dear voicewriter:

No, I do not NOT wish to continue writing. I am fine communicating further. I thought I was not helpful to you and didn’t see a way for me to be helpful. But since you are interested in more, i am definitely willing to continue!

I am lost, really. This is not often the case with me reading posts here. I really am lost. Let’s see, what can I ask you so to maybe get an understanding myself… oh, of course: can you tell me a bit about your childhood, specifically about your relationship with your mother, your father? Past and present if they are around…? But mostly how it was, your relationship, your intimate experience with either parent or both?

I wonder if you are willing to go back there. Our relationships throughout adulthood are greatly influenced by the relationships in our FORMATIVE years. That may help me get an understanding… maybe you already do?

anita