Hi J,

Even as a slightly older adult, friendships fade and/or change. They are situational friendships. You can’t get mad when they end, they just do sometimes.

And yes, I’ve had friendships where I had to end it. It was more awkward as a stable, grown adult, to do it. Meaning I couldn’t blame it on anything like school, moving, etc. I just tried to cool it. But then the other person got mad.

“ARE WE NOT FRIENDS ANYMORE?!”

(No, b/c you’re crazy)…. Many stories with that one, many, many stories…

But what you don’t want to do, especially with women is “Talk about it”. It solves nothing and only makes things more Weird, IMHO.

I don’t know when she stopped contacting me, whether it was after I yelled at her not to give her DD’s inheritance away to charity or when she stalked me at my father’s house when we tried to sneak out of our own house (yes, you read that right) so we could enjoy a holiday in peace!

Sorry for rambling,

Inky

• This reply was modified 9 years ago by Inky.