* Dear Priya:
Unfortunately, things can not go back to normal and you cannot trust him blindly- or at all- like before. You cannot be the same person and the relationship cannot be the same. Expecting otherwise is a set up for failure.

Everything has to start anew, a new relationship with him, a new kind of trust, a new you. Nothing is or will be the same. You have to build a mindset that is fitting this new everything. By NEW I mean After you found out about his infidelity.

it is like waking up in the morning and seeing someone new in the mirror: you that is new, and seeing him as someone you just met, re-evaluating everything. As long as you don’t try to go back to what was, and as long as you adjust and grow realistically and effectively into what IS, you will be okay.

anita