Fair or not I have worked places that will not hire anyone with a tattoo that cannot be covered with a short sleeve shirt.(security job with national company). As a x military wife I remember Marines with lower arm or hand tattoos could not get embassy duty. that was a million years ago. People do judge, not fair–but your tattoo may be the first impression someone has of you-depending on placement. that may be kool, free spirit. That may not be kool—-if you ever have another girlfriend, she will probably hate your x has the same tattoo. Her new boyfriend either. I have been in several “this is the one for the rest of my life” relationships
that said–I have two tattoos that only would show in a bathing suit with high French cut legs and brazil cut back. I am laughing because nobody would want to see me in that kind of bathing suit now-but I strutted my stuff back then. I do not regret my tattoos because they were private and only showed when I wanted them to. Now when I see my man in the moon tattoo on my butt–I get a chuckle. (wow the moon is so much closer than it used to be–and numerous others.)
people will always reach and touch your tattoos if u are attractive—no they don’t feel like anything but people touch them anyway. If you get another one think about that.
what would be truly unique would be for you to have a jewelry designer make you each a necklace that you helped design.
Blessings
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