Thanks everyone for your wonderful opinions! I needed to hear it from others that she is in fact stepping on my toes – just as i thought she was. My boyfriend has aggreed that she has – and said hes going to distance himself from her. Inky you’re correct when you said that i dont want to “rock the boat” persay – my boyfriend is a grown man, i will never tell him what he can and cannot do. Just give him suggestions and hope that hes smart enough to make the right decisions. I would never make him choose, thats just not how I work. He has told me that I am the priority in the relationship, so i believe that from his end. I just dont trust her as far as i could throw her. i just feel so disrespected from someone who claimed to be a “friend”.

He is fully aware of my feelings for her, ive had no issues communicating that towards him. I still have some feelings that I would like to share, and Anita you’re correct in that I should think clearly before i speak to make sure that i dont come across to aggressively.

Also, he did have the same views that if we slowly just ignore her – she’ll get bored and quit. Which im hoping is the case because i am not a confrontational person and would not want to confront her unless i absolutely needed too.