Dear jim:

I am one who does not believe Everything happens for a reason. I don’t believe anything at all is predetermined, destined.

The fact that she told you that her husband is her soulmate and she will never have another, that speaks louder than… loud snoring, I say. It tells you she is not ready and or not willing to have a relationship with you or with anyone at all.

The reason it happened, well… perhaps she indeed is not over her ex husband and wants him back.

I am sorry for your pain, please post again, share, vent, ask, anything…

anita