Thanks Anita, I do understand what you are saying about the voices in his head being louder than the calmness, I will try and find out what it it that he was thinking during this time when I speak to him again and let you know what the outcome of this is. I will probably speak to him again in a few weeks, I want to give him his time for now and respect that, I also probably need some time to process all of this and come up with the right tools and questions for when I do speak to him. I have told him how scared I am of losing him and how strongly I feel that he is making a mistake, I’m not sure, if by me telling him this, that this is the reason that he said that he needs time instead of just leaving me outright. I will have to approach him differently, and not be so emotional myself because when I am like that I can’t think clearly and all I think of is what I want, and nothing else. Thank you for always responding to me, this is really helping me.