In addition , it is so weird the whole push/pull dynamic ! I understand the concept of wanting things that we cannot have and this exactly pertains to our relationship. The moment I start ignoring him he realizes I am something worth pursuing and I mean contacting my friend and finding any means necessary to get into contact with me , even creepy things ! He also told me that If I were to reject him, or if I were to ignore him or not respond that he would find me by any means and continue to try because he believes ultimately that he wants to be with me. If this is all really true then I have came to the realization that I need too see these things come to pass. I shouldn’t be so easy to just call whenever he says and make myself so available that he stops trying. It would be interesting to see whether these things he says are true.