Dear jim:

You come across to me as a very authentic person in your posts: emotional, spontaneous, not editing yourself much…typing it as it is, and I like what I see (in your posts) very much. Your emotions are raw and they “scream” out of the computer screen… which makes you very real to me, honest. In my mind, this makes you very desirable to a woman who would be interested in the real thing, real emotions, honesty…

Your pain of rejection, her being cold to you, the pain of lack of mutuality of attachment is strong in you. I see it. Please keep posting for as long as you need to, for as long as it is helpful to you…

anita