Dear Sunshine:

Why don’t you share your fear with him, honestly just like it is. Share your vulnerability. Write to him just what you shared here. This can bring you great results, calm you, and that calm that you need will be helpful in your efforts to lose weight.

Instead of stressing and trying to get rid of the problem (excess weight) before you get to meet him in person, share your distress with him, and if he responds positively, your relationship will get stronger online before you meet.

What do you think?

anita