Dear Courtney:

Seems like yes, a “sayer” – if there is a pattern in your behavior with men, that does not exclude the fact that this or that man may very well have his own pattern… this guy, maybe his pattern is to be a Sayer and not a Doer. You have been paying close attention to your behavior during this relationship and you are paying attention to his behavior.

I am so sorry this is not working out well right now and it doesn’t seem promising at this point. It must be so tiring to try again and again …. I understand your frustration.

Later on I would like to re-read the previous thread you posted and the exchange and write to you again.

There was something there and I don’t recall right now. Later…

Take care!
anita