Dear cath:

You must have had very good times with him and naturally, you miss those good times especially since you are not having any good time presently.

You feel guilty because he rented the house from his family members when you lived with him and you paid part of that rent when you lived with him until you lost your job and then you were unable to pay the rent. Now he has to pay it all by himself, is that the situation? Did he blame you for that??? Did he ask you to continue to pay rent there after you no longer live there?

anita