Hi danie,

If you are demanding and expectant of other people that is not loving behavior. Think of your right and left hands. The right hand symbolically gives and the left hand symbolically receives. When interacting with men (and others!) have your right “hand” be out and put the left behind your back. I’m not telling you to be a doormat. Not at all! But when the other person wants to give to you, then extend your left hand.

There’s a difference between having your left hand already out (“gimme gimme”) and putting it out when the time is right (“thank you”).

Good Luck,

Inky