Dear Max:

About the Emotional Side vs the Logical Side that you mentioned… I am thinking that when you entertained the thought about contacting her, those thoughts were fueled by your need for love, a strong need, understandably. Those thoughts were not fueled by her (in) ability to love you adequately but by your need…

One day, I would like it if you started a thread that may be very short, but a thread nonetheless about a loving and being loved relationship that you will have. This strength that you are building in this thread and the previous one, looking at reality as it is, making reasonable choices, walking your talk (not contacting her) and talking your walk… all these are going to lead to a true, full love story and I can’t wait to be reading about it…

Until then, keep what you are doing… Looking forward to your next post.

anita