I’m a month in to this break up now but still feel bitter. This man said he would make me fall in love with him,did everything possible to be the best boyfriend. Met me after work,during my lunch hour,helped me with my house,with my daughters etc etc and I feel like he pushed me to rely on him. Even my daughter pointed out over xmas that he didn’t really allow me to have a voice or opinion. Was it my fault that I allowed this? Now he has disappeared from my life I am so lost and am struggling to get back my independance!I felt so smothered at the beginning and I guess I adjusted or just gave in.
Is it reasonable to give him some blame or is it all my own doing! I was doing so well before he came along,I didn’t rely on anyone for anything!
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