Dear Shelly:

If I was you, I would write to him that he broke his promises to you and that (as far as I know) he did not even talk to you about going back on his promises. I wonder if he makes promises to his kids and does not keep those. It is wrong to not keep a promise to a child and it is wrong to do the same to an adult.

Like I wrote before, just because you were not perfect, in no way means he was! Something to remember…

Writing to him is okay, I think, as long as you have no expectations that anything will come of it. But how can it possibly hurt (if you have no expectations), at least you have a say in what matters to you.

If you want to write the first draft or so here, you are welcome. Make it short and don’t go on and on about any point. And you are welcome!

anita