Dear Serendipityj:

The fact that she is not over her ex boyfriend has to be a Stop Sign for you, Stop, turn back and Drive Away sign.

It is a shame that the distance is right and a few other things seem right, but the ex boyfriend still in the picture, still occupying her emotionally is a traffic crash about to happen.

If you want, you can watch the traffic so to speak, from a safe distance, see what happens, but don’t get on the road. In other words, don’t get involved with her, is my advice.

anita