Dear Amy:

This is my input following your last post and considering all posts till now:

No physical contact with him, the father of your child, is a must. And it can be done.

I think it is perfectly fine for either you OR him to attend any particular event, school wise and even birthdays! In the latter, you can attend a first birthday party and he, another on the next day.

It is for the benefit of the child that you and his father have no physical contact, no physical interaction.

It is for the child own good, and I believe it wholeheartedly!

Please, Amy, consider this: his father is willing to have no physical contact, it is good for the child….let it be so.

Since you have no evidence that the father is abusive or even neglectful of the child, do not get involved in their time together, the visitations, that is. Let there be a mediator to arrange times and such.

Please, Amy, consider this. Let me know what you think???

anita