Hey Matty,

I know you said you have joined clubs and done lunch dates but what about doing things that are wayyy out of your comfort zone, that forces everyone involved to let their head down and look a little bit silly. This could be anything from a gym class, dance classes, drama improv groups etc. There’s nothing wrong with being quiet or serious but maybe putting yourself in situations where people can see your light hearted side will help other peoples perception of you.

Much peace and love,

Chenai xx