Dear Wisdom:

The fact that you having the feeling that this guy means something different than other guys meant to you, and that he may be your destiny means, to me, that you are motivated and interested in having a good, loving relationship with this guy, that you are hoping for such. To me, it doesn’t mean he is your destiny (since I don’t believe in destiny).

It is exciting, the possibility of a loving relationship you may have with a young man. I sure hope this will take place soon enough, with the right kind of a guy, that is a good, honest, loving man.

What is more important to me in a possible relationship with this guy, is that you will be able to evaluate him and figure if he is an honest person who is empathetic and who will pay you the loving attention you need!!!

If you do initiate a meeting with him, if you gather the courage, it is only the first step. It is not all up to him you know: he has to be … good enough for you!

Till later, take good care of your precious self
anita

* Dear BenzRabbit: thank you so much, and good to see you here!