Hi

Firstly sending you hugs. Heartbreak is the worst. I think the poster above really nailed it. I would say definitely get him to pick up his stuff asap. Remove all physical reminders of him, don’t necessarily throw them but out then out of sight. Google broken heart and soak up the advice. That helped me heaps.

Forgive yourself for dating another guy. You did nothing wrong!

I’d say it’s important to note that this guy has been unreliable, uncommunicative, unloving and unfair.

Use this time of acute pain to give yourself love, kindness and friendship. What would you say to a friend who was going through this?

The emotions will come and go, they will lessen over time – time is definitely the best healer –

Sending much love

BB