I did confront him and he teared up while looking directly at me while she was standing by quietly. I am currently blocked or deleted from all forms of communication other than Instagram (I am sure it’s due to her request).

I am not sure if I am in the position to contact him at this point, of course I want there to be some type of communication for the sake of clarity between us, but I guess I have to pick up my own pieces and move on and assume he will contact me when he has his mind together a little more. If you believe I should contact him in this particular situation, I would love to hear your opinion.

And I just want to really stress my gratitude to you all. You have put so much effort and listened to my situation in a way beyond what I could ask for. I am a strong believer in having compassion for all, and even in this scenario I have so much compassion for him and even her. everyone has a different viewpoint in which they see the world, and that is essentially what causes these situations, as well as the beautiful ones, not pure evil living in someone, but a slew of insecurities, needs and fears that cause people to make choices that are hurtful or wrong. I understand that, I have been that, i still have some of that living in me and I will forever except that I will always be striving to become a better person than I was yesterday. So to tune someone out because they made an ill-choice because of their fears….doesn’t that action transfer their fears onto you? It’s a progressive snowball effect. I don’t want to become a materialize version of the way he treated me, and I don’t want to allow that transference effect to embody another via myself. This is all easy to say, but to understand it deep within your heart, when all you do is want to shake that person and say “don’t you see? What were you thinking?”….it’s an uphill struggle. Thank you for all your compassion