Dear Serendipityj:

You didn’t ask her if she got the card then… I can’t imagine a person with a heart not acknowledging the loving gesture you made, of sending that card.

I understand your frustration. It gets tiring to hope and wait and hope and wait. It is human nature to need some reward for our waiting and hoping and loving. As I wrote in another thread, or meant to write, we are not “saints”- that is being okay with giving (love and time and patience and hope) with no expectation of return. Self interest is always a motivation and naturally so.

What to do then, you ask yourself, not sure what to do… I wonder what it is that you will do…

anita