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Hi BB,
I’m really sorry to hear about your mis-hap with your ex. This sounds very hurtful for you 🙁
You did the right thing, since he dis-respected you and felt ” a knife through your heart ” about subjects you weren’t prepared for. Setting boundaries at the beginning of a meeting is completely fair, I agree. So that you may feel comfortable.
“I left him in no doubt that he had crossed several lines and we would not be doing it again. I was painfully reminded of why we are no longer together.”
Wow, not sure of what happened but if he was dis-respecting you during the entire time of your meet up, to where he crossed several lines as you said. Then you had every right to leave. You must do what’s right for you and you did. This person sounds un-reasonable and irrational to not consider your feelings and personal boundaries during your meet up. I’m truly very sorry your recent situation didn’t turn out but you can now breathe a sigh of relief that you can forget about this person and move on with your life now, so that you no longer feel threatened.
Sending you a bunch positivity, love and light your way.
M.