Dear Madison Sonnier:

When he expressed to you that he would like his caring about you to be “in a way that doesn’t disrupt the flow of his life”- it means that there is a flow to his life that doesn’t include you and he doesn’t want it interrupted. If he loved you heavy duty (not lightly)- there would be a flow to such a love that he doesn’t want to be distracted by, doesn’t want to … flow with.

That makes sense, doesn’t it? And your “emotional hangover” the next day, your flow before a marathon conversation with him was taken over by the flow of the conversation and now you feel this hangover. How does it feel, this “emotional hangover”?

anita