Dear Wendy:

Can you imagine if you marry him (please don’t!) and this is his child rearing philosophy: ongoing negative criticism and nothing positive to say? You will be raising very anxious, unwell children!

So… please do not marry him and have children with him unless he makes a 90 degree change and sticks with the change for good.

It is not healthy for you to be in a relationship with a man with this life philosophy either, even though you are not a child.

anita