Dear BlueHue:

I feel bad for your nephew because he has the mother he is having and the father he is having. If there was a way to rescue him and give him a good home, I would highly recommend it.

You wrote that if it meant that much to your sister to have you in her son’s life… I am thinking: it is not about her,about your sister. It is your nephew’s well being that I am sad about! He is in bad shape because of the parents he is having and there is nothing you can do about it!

All you can do is take care of yourself. Hope you do the grieving you need to do.

anita