Hi Jonymm,

I’m sorry this happened to you. That was a punch in the gut!! The lesson, I suppose, is never to take anything for granted and that the chickens always come home to roost. When someone suddenly breaks up with us, they’ve usually been breaking up, moving on, and planning it for months. And then they spring it on us which is NOT fair!!

Next time, don’t buy a house with someone unless you’re married, and don’t live with them and raise their kids unless you are just that. The poor kids!! They, too, have lost someone they love (you!!) and now have no father figure.

Sell the house. If you can’t, at least totally rearrange the furniture. And get new furniture while you’re at it (if you can). Replace the mattress first!! Energetically, our bedding can be one hot mess.

Best,

Inky