Dear Missjennacole:

In my quest to help you with insight, I have more questions:

You wrote that your parents are incredibly strong willed, this is how you put it, I believe. Tell me more about them being strong willed: how did them being so strong willed express itself when you were a young child?

When there were lots of shouting between them, how did it make you feel at the time? Did you intervene, try to comfort your parents when they were angry at each other? If you did, what was their response?

How did your parents handle the “soft emotions” in each other and in you? Soft emotions being fear, hurt, sadness? Did they express those to each other, to you? Did they allow you to express those to them?

anita