Dear Jonny:

In your original post you wrote: “My life has always been positive.”

In your latest post, you wrote: “I have always been a rock to other people”

And you also wrote in your latest post: “For the first time in my life I felt relaxed in a relationship”

I would like to understand how these statements go together: how could your life has been, before this last relationship, been always positive and you have always been a rock to other people while you never relaxed into a relationship before?

anita