Dear Wisdom:

He doesn’t know you, that guy. If all he has is a superficial communication from you and maybe a photo of you, he has very little. Sure, a beautiful looking girl does turn heads, most often. Guys often go nuts for looks and a sexy look. A fact of life. But what would it have meant if your photo was that of a supermodel type in a small bikini and he responded. What would that have meant? Only that he liked your body. And what does that mean? Is that the love you are looking for? A man to go gaga for a female body?

Knowing you as much as I do through our communications, I know that there is a lot to you, more than your body. First I am sure that you look good enough. Maybe not a perfect supermodel type, but hey, even they often don’t think they look good enough and their looks are corrected before presented in a magazine or a movie.

Back to you, there is much more to you, a whole person, a thinking, feeling young woman, an independent thinker, stubborn and insistent, persistent… honest, authentic. Truly, you will be a … blessing to a man who will be deserving to have you in his life.

anita